...SimMiChikO Tags, 10 Random things about ItSaBriiiiiZe

My blogger buddy, ...SimMiChikO, tagged me with the "I think you are an awesome girl" award awhile back...I thought it was about time I share 10 random things about me :)

1. I believe whole-heartedly that people enjoy music they can relate to, either through lyrics or the emotions conveyed through the melodies. Test my theory!!2. Food excites me, beyond what most people could imagine. I recently be-friended a security guard a work that has a culinary background. I took the time to hear him out on a few of his food ramblings. And since that day, he has brought me one food-related piece of advice, edible item, or resource! So far, I've had the pleasure of experiencing: Corn bread chili baked in a ramekin, 2 mexican sweet rolls, 2 fish taco sauce packets, a few recs for scenic restaurants in Laguna Niguel, and a 2 week rental of an 800 page book on cooking!

3. I'm currently obsessed with big bold jewelry! Glass blown pendants are a recent favorite :)

4. I do not have much shame. If there is a question you'd like me to ask in public, however embarassing, I might very well ask it.
5. I am an accountant by day, and artist by night. That is why I surround myself with whimsical things, melodies, and artistic influenes. I am an artist in my own way.
6. I am a huge fan of ambiance: Settings and surroundings that is. Sometimes it can make or break a dining experience for me.
7. 5K runs became a casual hobby of mine this year. I ran one by the SD Embarcadero and walked one at the SD Zoo!

8. I cannot walk out of Sephora without buying at least 1 item. Oh Sephora, how I love your magic :) Last purchase: Bare Escentuals Summer Bisque SPF 20 Loose Powder (for me), Mangosteen Perfume (not for me)
9. I discovered a new love for scented candles! Can't get enough of them.

10. Last month was my first time visiting the other side of the contiguous United States...flew to lovely Chicago with the roomies and had a blast :) I looooved getting to experience SEASONS!

Check Out My Cornucopia

The heavy exposure to artistic talents these past few months have made quite the impression on me. A crafty feeling has crept over me and has gotten me wanting to create EVERYTHING from scratch. From food to floral arangements, to ornaments and candle holders. My most recent creative steak left me with four unique cornucopias. Check out a couple of my Cornucopias!
More craftinESS to come!

Powerful but Useless: Don't get Stuck

I just want to say that Guilt is one of the most powerful but useless feelings ever to exist. It's strength does not carry any weight when it comes to its purpose. Why is it useless? Because it doesn't HELP the situation for you to feel it. It doesn't even begin to present a solution to the problem. It's an overwhelming helplessness that runs itself over and over into a wall. Not to say Guilt is not deserved for the alleged wrong-doer. But, it is useless to dwell in it because it doesn't help the person you wronged feel any better.

However, not feeling Guilt could possibly mean you're heartless. On a different note, feeling Guilt and letting it run you over could also drive you insane. In the end, it's a lose-lose situation. And once it arrives at your front door step, don't let yourself get swept away and blind-sighted by it's pitch. How do you break out of it and make it go away?

First, understand the reasoning behind your feelings. That is step one. If you did something wrong, come up with a plan and make a promise to yourself of how you might approach a similar situation differently. Step two, make sure you know the person you feel guilty for/about knows you are sincerely regretful or sorry, whether the situation was in or out of your hands. Confidence in knowing you are stepping forward, with a positive outlook, is enough to get the ball rolling towards recovery for both individuals.

Remember, you want to avoid beating yourself up over and over again for it. Because, if feeling it doesnt help, getting over it and not feeling it...might.

Regretful situations happen to us all. But stay optimistic. A confident outlook from there on out will serve a positive purpose in the long-run.

You Possess the Keys to your own Shackles...

I watched an episode of House with the roomies last night about a war veteran that had lost the greater portion of his right limb in battle. All he could remember was the pain he experienced just before his right hand was blown off. And so for 36 years, all he allowed himself to experience was the same wretched pain in that right limb. House took him hostage one evening, made him stick his limbs into a box where a mirror was strategically placed to reflect the undamaged left limb. This gave someone looking into the box the impression that there lay two healthy limbs. House forced him to watch the illusion of his own "two" clenched hands. Then he forced him to unclench them slowly. And suddenly, the pain from his right limb disappeared. This proved that the distress he had placed on himself was all psycological. The moment he believed he had witnessed his 2 hands release from the clenched position was when he felt relief for the first time in 36 years.

And in the same way, I ask myself where this reflective box exists in my life. How do I reach the mindset that my goals are attainable, challenges are never too difficult, and that new beginnings and happiness exist? More importantly, what helps me overcome the mental blocks and obstacles I've created for myself?

Why, the answer is simple: Hope, faith, perserverance, optimism, patience, and love.

Stop this world, and Love.

I downloaded a bad version of Stop this World by Ne-Yo awhile back before I purchased his CD. Now, what's special about this bad version is that mid-song, some grandeous voice comes out of no where and begins speaking, reverting Ne-Yo to background music. Confused at his voice, I listened closely and focused on his words. Apparently, this song was edited to be used at a wedding! Angela and Jesse had dubbed their Pastor's voice over the tune to announce their marriage and to share to their guests and also whoever heard it, what Love meant to them. I liked its messages. I decided to type them out :)

Love. It is a continium that cannot be broken. Not by time nor distance nor even death.

In life there is a single color, as on an artists palette which provides the meaning of love.

Love is the emblem of eternity, it confounds all notion of time. It faces all memory of beginning and all fear.

Separated lovers find countless mysterious ways of corresponding, by sending eachother the song of birds, the scent of flowers, the laughter of children, the light of the sun, the sighing of the wind, the gleam of th e stars, all the beauties of creation.

In the fight to find eachother, the perfect moment awaits its destiny.

When they meet, they know...that's why love is never ending nor begging, it is always and forever.
...

This brought a smile to my face. I thought it might bring one to yours!

Nike: Just Do It (or Don't!)

I'm not sure if this is for real, but it took me back to my 'SC days. I had so much fun hangin out around Westwood with SF, decked out in our bright cardinal and gold USC hoodies, while getting our weekly fix of Diddy Reese ice cream sandwiches!

http://lostangelesblog.wordpress.com/2009/09/03/nike-confuses-usc-with-that-school-near-diddy-reese/#comment-597

Maybe I'm able to see the humor in this because I've never let myself get caught up in the pride most people have from attending a particular school. Frankly, I think this is hilarious and I SO wouldn't mind sporting one of these Nike V-neck shirts!

Don't be surprised to find me in Westwood this year, wearing the wrong colors and getting harassed! What can I say? I love the shock value of this too much...*throws up Victory sign* :)

Be Fearless.

On Colbie Caillat's new album, Breakthrough

I am so glad I went out to buy her CD and support her. I haven't bought a CD in ages. In fact, if you were to visit my room and review the CD rack, you'd know I stopped buying albums after high school. But an early sneak preview of Fallin' For You and a visit to Target's CD section changed all of that :)

I will be continuing to show my support for Colbie on September 15, 2009 when I see her in concert at HOB in San Diego! It will be my first time getting a CD autographed (apparently, I didn't live out my teenie bopper years to the fullest haha)! *Correction: 2nd time getting a CD autographed, but the 1st time bringing in a pre-purchased CD to the artist for signing.

But I could definitely get used this... given I've recently had the pleasure of being showered with masterful pieces of art, autographed by their original artist!

So I am absolutely in love with the song Fearless. Perhaps, because I am able to relate to its lyrics when I recall my past and some of the (sour) relationships they carried.

FEARLESS.
So go on, go on and break my heart
I'll be okay
There's nothing you can do to me
That's ever going to burn me
So go on, go on and leave my love
Out on the street

If this is how it hurts
It couldn't get much worse
If this is how it feels to fall
Then that's the way it is
We live with what we miss
We learn to build another wall
Till it falls

If it's between love and losing
To never have known the feeling
And I'm still sad we've loved
And if I end up lonely
At least I will be there knowing
I believe in love

I'm fearless
Better believe I'm fearless, fearless

Source: http://www.smartlyrics.com/

The Talented Mr. I...

I couldn't resist posting this awesome-ness :) I feel like I've seen this concept before or at least thought about it before, but this is definitely an original created with two unique people in mind. And the coolest part is knowing that I was an inspiration for this piece. Looking at this puts me at ease, makes me smile from ear to ear and all the same time amazes me at just much talent some people out there possess (JEALOUS!) Thank you -i...

A New Way To Be Human

It wasn't too long ago that JC's words left me speechless.

He proceeded to challenge me with a very thought-provoking question: What if all your wrong decisions led you to a right one later? Would you still consider them wrong?

The comment sent me into a big tizzy. I didn't have any way to attack it. There was nothing to attack! What IF? I guess the "bad decisions" wouldn't be "bad" afterall. Genius.

What I begin to see today is that life is an open sketchbook. You keep with you all of the old defining sketches, but what each day holds is a yet to be determined and never routine. And that is why we should approach each new day, each page, with a fresh and optimistic attitude. Where one's sketchbook were to start could never determine where the sketchbook were to end. And each day you have in life would essentially be what you decided to fill each moment of your life with. Every sketch, or event, in your sketchbook of life would feel right for that very moment. You would have an idea of what you wanted your end product to be, but planning for it; restricting yourself; regulating every detail would never cut it. You would simply need to just do it, live it, experiment, make the unexpected choices...and see what it gave back!

I don't know by what rhyme or reason this has crossed my mind today. But I sit here in awe of the beauty of the Divine and what Master plan is out there for each and every one of us. The funny thing is, I used to believe this way of thinking was a sad excuse not to acknowledge the 'bad decisions' made in the past. However, it is not until this moment that I have adopted this new outlook.

Life and everything it holds is what you believe it will hold. Because what you believe, will ultimately be true. Once again, I am reinforcing the idea that Attitude is Everything.

If you've got the right one, you can't lose.

You Say Psycho, I Say Psyche.

Today I realized that men tremble at the word "psycho".

Tack it on to the end of any sentence, especially in the context of describing a girl, and they are sure to run and hide.

For instance:

"I can be a little pyscho."
"I can assure you, I am NOT psycho."
"What did you say about being psycho?"
"He broke up with you because you were psycho?"

...crickets chirping...

I feel the need to clear up this misconception of a girl being psycho. It is simply the word used to describe a girl when the standards instilled and taught to us at a young age (ie. treat others with respect, be considerate of others' feelings, don't let a man step all over you, be independent, know your worth) have been deeply violated. And why do we rage? Because...when our kindness, consideration, and throughtful actions have been taken for granted, what else would we do!?

In any case, there are many references to girls being 'crazy'. And equally the amount of references of men being 'pigs' or just plain 'dumb'. As RC put it, the only way for us girls to get past this is to find a boy who can take our "crazy" and we'll sacrafice taking the "dumb". So how do we know much compromise to make? That is where this story takes a fateful turn.

There is no compromise necessary. Girls, you be who you are. Guys, you do your thang. You're "crazy" to one guy might be just the perfect hook to not only the man of your dreams, but the right one.


Can you avoid the "crazy" in a girl? Not likely. And this is because the smart ladies out there will turn the "crazy" off at the beginning. But once the men are (as SF put it) "in the cave", you can be assured we will release our crazy all the way, at that point - just because we can.

Moral of this story: Ladies, if we just learn to choose our battles wisely and not waste our time and effort trying to please a man, we're bound to land that gentleman who is more than willing to bend for us, and sweep us off of our feet - just as our nuturing, loving hearts deserve. Don't you dare settle for any less!

Although, if you want to see a comical (so extreme that it's unlikely) case of "psycho", a mini series that JC has shared: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMoGj9QtZts

Hopeless Romantix

SF sent me a bunch of J. Sparks songs today...YAY!!! <3

SP: hahaha i love how we both trip out about how good songs are
no one else i know gets that excited about it
and sometimes i get sad hahaahahaha
SF: hahahaha omg dude this made my day, this cd is amazing
SP: why do we like break up songs so much?
SF: cuz we're hopeless romantics and dramatic souls

DAMN STRAIGHT :)

These two songs hit home:

Don't Let It Go To Your Head
So what if I came clean, and told you all you mean to me, so what if I meant every word I said,baby don't let it go to your head So what if I write your name, cause you're always on my brain, in a heart I paint in crimson red,baby dont let it go to your head Dont be getting any big ideas, let me make it clear Just cause I cant go on, just cause I die when ur gone, and just cause I think of you in bed,dont let it go to your head, if I dim your eyes, one too, too many times, analyse every word you said,dont let it go to your head, oh oh, don't let it go to your head, oh oh So what if I want to kiss, from your toes up to your lips, it don't mean that you have me yet,youre gonna be good out of bed, I'm the one who's in control here, let me make it clear Just cause I cant go on, just cause I die when ur gone, just cause I think of you in bed,dont let it go to your head, if I dim your eyes, one too, too many times, analyse,every word you said, dont let it go to your head, dont let it go to your head, oh oh Now you think you got me Well im gonna get you Now you think you can touch me Well im gonna let you Just cause I cant go on, just cause I die when ur gone, just cause I think of you in bed, dont let it go to ur head Just cause I cant go on Just cause I die when ur gone Just cause I think of you in bed, dont let it go to your head, if I dim your eyes, one too,too many times, analyse every word you said, dont let it go to your head, dont let it go to your head,dont let it go your head, dont let it go to your head, dont let it go to your head...


Was I The Only One
Mmmm. When you told me that I was a star in the sky, baby I believed every word. And you seemed so sincere, it was perfectly clear, cause forever was all that I heard. And every little kiss, from your tender lips, couldn't of been a lie. I fell hard over head, without a saftey net, and I don't understand this goodbye. Was I the only one who fell in love? There never really was the two of us. And maybe my all just wasn't good enough. Was I the only one, only one, in love? As I walk down the hall, see the place on the wall, where the picture of us used to be. I fight back those tears, cause I still feel you here. How could you walk out so easily? And I dont understand, how I can feel this pain, and still be alive. And all these broken dreams, and all these memories, are killing me inside. Was I the only one who fell in love? There never really was the two of us. And maybe my all just wasn't good enough. Was I the only one, only one, Tell me, what I'm supposed to do with all this love? Baby, it was supposed to be the two of us. Help me, cause I still don't want to believe. I was the only one. I was the only one. I the only one who fell in love. There never really was the two of us, hey. And maybe my all just wasn't good enough. I the only one, the only one. I the only one who fell in love. There never really was the two of us. And maybe my all just wasn't good enough. Was I the only one, the only one, in love? When you told me that I was a star in the sky, baby I believed every word.

What Tree Did You Fall From?

Just revisiting a fun personality test (http://www.anarvi.org/)



Jan 01 to Jan 11 - Fir Tree
Jan 12 to Jan 24 - Elm Tree
Jan 25 to Feb 03 - Cypress Tree
Feb 04 to Feb 08 - Poplar Tree
Feb 09 to Feb 18 - Cedar Tree
Feb 19 to Feb 28 - Pine Tree
Mar 01 to Mar 10 - Weeping Willow Tree
Mar 11 to Mar 20 - Lime Tree
Mar 21 - Oak Tree
Mar 22 to Mar 31 - Hazelnut Tree
Apr 01 to Apr 10 - Rowan Tree
Apr 11 to Apr 20 - Maple Tree
Apr 21 to Apr 30 - Walnut Tree
May 01 to May 14 - Poplar Tree
May 15 to May 24 - Chestnut Tree
May 25 to Jun 03 - Ash Tree
Jun 04 to Jun 13 - Hornbeam Tree
Jun 14 to Jun 23 - Fig Tree
Jun 24 - Birch Tree
Jun 25 to Jul 04 - Apple Tree
Jul 05 to Jul 14 - Fir Tree
Jul 15 to Jul 25 - Elm Tree
Jul 26 to Aug 04 - Cypress Tree
Aug 05 to Aug 13 - Poplar Tree
Aug 14 to Aug 23 - Cedar Tree
Aug 24 to Sep 02 - Pine Tree
Sep 03 to Sep 12 - Weeping Willow Tree
Sep 13 to Sep 22 - Lime Tree
Sep 23 - Olive Tree
Sep 24 to Oct 03 - Hazelnut Tree
Oct 04 to Oct 13 - Rowan Tree
Oct 14 to Oct 23 - Maple Tree
Oct 24 to Nov 11 - Walnut Tree
Nov 12 to Nov 21 - Chestnut Tree
Nov 22 to Dec 01 - Ash Tree
Dec 02 to Dec 11 - Hornbeam Tree
Dec 12 to Dec 21 - Fig Tree
Dec 22 - Beech Tree
Dec 23 to Dec 31 - Apple Tree

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APPLE TREE (Love) - of slight build, lots of charm, appeal, and attraction, pleasant aura, flirtatious, adventurous, sensitive, always in love, wants to love and be loved, faithful and tender partner, very generous, scientific talents, lives for today, a carefree philosopher with imagination.

ASH TREE (Ambition) - uncommonly attractive, vivacious, impulsive, demanding, does not care for criticism, ambitious, intelligent, talented, likes to play with fate, can be egotistic, very reliable and trustworthy, faithful an

BEECH TREE (Creative) - has good taste, concerned about its looks, materialistic, good organization of life and career, economical, good leader, takes no unnecessary risks, reasonable, splendid lifetime companion, keen on keeping fit (diets, sports, etc.)

BIRCH TREE (Inspiration) - vivacious, attractive, elegant, friendly,pretentious, modest, does not like anything in excess, abhors the vulgar, loves life in nature and in calm, not very passionate, full of imagination, little ambition, creates a calm and content atmosphere.

CEDAR TREE (Confidence) - of rare beauty, knows how to adapt, likes luxury, of good health, not in the least shy, tends to look down on others,self-confident, determined, impatient, likes to impress others, many talents, industrious, healthy optimism, waiting for the one true love, able to make quick decisions.

CHESTNUT TREE (Honesty) - of unusual beauty, does not want to impress, well-developed sense of justice, vivacious, interested, a born diplomat, but irritates easily and sensitive in company, often due to a lack of self confidence, acts sometimes superior, feels not understood, loves only once, has difficulties in finding a partner.

CYPRESS TREE (Faithfulness) - strong, muscular, adaptable, takes what life has to give, content, optimistic, craves money and acknowledgment, hates loneliness, passionate lover which cannot be satisfied, faithful, quick-tempered, unruly, pedantic, and careless.

ELM TREE (Noble-Minded) - pleasant shape, tasteful clothes, loudest demands, tends not to forgive mistakes, cheerful, likes to lead but not to obey, honest and faithful partner, likes making decisions for others, noble-minded, generous, good sense of humor, practical.

FIG TREE (Sensibility) - very strong, a bit self-willed,independent, does not allow contradiction or arguments, loves life, its family, children and animals, a bit of a social butterfly, good sense of humor, likes idleness and laziness, of practical talent and intelligence.

FIR TREE (Mysterious) - extraordinary taste, dignity, sophisticated, loves anything beautiful, moody, stubborn, tends to egoism but cares for those close to them, rather modest, very ambitious, talented, industrious, uncontested lover, many friends, many foes, very reliable.

HAZELNUT TREE (Extraordinary) - charming, undemanding, very understanding, knows how to make an impression, active fighter for social cause, popular, moody, and capricious lover, honest, and tolerant partner, precise sense of judgment.

HORNBEAM TREE (Good Taste) - of cool beauty, cares for its looks and condition, good taste, is not egoistic, makes life as comfortable as possible, leads a reasonable and disciplined life, looks for kindness and acknowledgment in an emotional partner, dreams of unusual lovers, is seldom
happy with its feelings, mistrusts most people, is never sure of its decisions, very conscientious.

LIME TREE (Doubt) - accepts what life dishes out in a composed way, hates fighting, stress, and labor, dislikes laziness and idleness, soft and relenting, makes sacrifices for friends, many talents but not tenacious enough to make them blossom, often wailing and complaining, very jealous but loyal.

MAPLE TREE (Independent) - no ordinary person, full of imagination and originality, shy and reserved, ambitious, proud, self-confident, hungers for new experiences, sometimes nervous, has many complexities, good memory, learns easily, complicated love life, wants to impress.

OAK TREE (Brave) - robust nature, courageous, strong, unrelenting, independent, sensible, does not like change, keeps its feet on the ground, person of action.

OLIVE TREE (Wisdom) - loves sun, warmth and kind feelings, reasonable, balanced, avoids aggression and violence, tolerant, cheerful, calm, well-developed sense of justice, sensitive, empathetic, free of jealousy, loves to read and the company of sophisticated people.

PINE TREE (Particular) - loves agreeable company, very robust, knows how to make life comfortable, very active, natural, good companion, but seldom friendly, falls easily in love but its passion burns out quickly, gives up easily, everything disappointments until it finds its ideal, trustworthy, practical.

POPLAR TREE (Uncertainty) - looks very decorative, not very self-confident, only courageous if necessary, needs goodwill and pleasant surroundings, very choosy, often lonely, great animosity, artistic nature, good organizer, tends to lean toward philosophy, reliable in any situation, takes partnership seriously.

ROWAN TREE (Sensitivity) - full of charm, cheerful, gifted without egoism, likes to draw attention, loves life, motion, unrest, and even complications, is both dependent and independent, good taste, artistic, passionate, emotional, good company, does not forgive.

WALNUT TREE (Passion) - unrelenting, strange and full of contrasts, often egotistic, aggressive, noble, broad horizon, unexpected reactions, spontaneous, unlimited ambition, no flexibility, difficult and uncommon partner, not always liked but often admired, ingenious strategist, very jealous and passionate, no compromise.

WEEPING WILLOW (Melancholy) - beautiful but full of melancholy, attractive, very empathetic, loves anything beautiful and tasteful, loves to travel, dreamer, restless, capricious, honest, can be influenced but is not easy to live with, demanding, good intuition, suffers in love but finds sometimes an anchoring partner.

Eating My Way to Elite Status

I really haven't paid much attention to the concept of Elite status on YELP until my roomies recently attended the White Rabbit Party @ Syrah. They came home boasting an amazingly fun night, the event set in a cool lounge decked out in an Alice in Wonderland theme. But better yet, the FOOD! These juicy details got JK and me wondering how hard it would be to make it to Elite status and gain entrance into the YELP exclusive events...

JK: I'll bet you $100 that you won't make it to Elite status.
SP: HA! Are you sure you want to lose that much money?
JK: Naw, you won't make it.
SP: Give me until the end of the year. And let's drop it down to $50, I feel bad.
JK: Don't need to drop the amount. You can't do it!
SP: Let's just bet on a Valley View buffet. That's satisfying enough!
JK: Deal. Better start writing, sucka!!!
SP: If I write1-2 reviews a night, I'll be Elite in no time...

SO! My strategy? Post hot ass pics, write *F-U-C*ing reviews, and make friends with as many Elite '09 members as possible.

I left for L.A. this weekend, and within less than a days worth, I've tried 2 new places, generated 2+ reviews, posted 10 new pictures, gained 2 compliments, and befriended a Yelp Elite'09 hottie.

You're going DOWN, JK. DOWN. I can already taste my FREE crab + lobster buffet!

Written in the Stars

Reading up on astrological signs is one of my favorite past times, and I should say it is also one of my guiltiest pleasures. As a friend has justified before, astrological readings are a great "jump-off" point to getting to know the people you are surrounded with (and frankly, a catalyst for my fascination of why some people behave and act the way they do!). I discovered birthday astrology this year, after getting bored with the generic birthday month analyses.

JULY 4 BIRTHDAY ASTROLOGY (howstuffworks.com)
It's not always easy to get along with July 4 Cancers, who are a strong-willed and determined bunch. Yet they are fair enough to admit when they are wrong and even apologize once in a while. July 4 natives have a humanitarian streak and will do many good deeds in their life, but they prefer to do them secretly.

Friends and Lovers
July 4 individuals are generally regarded as leaders by the people in their circle of friends, and they may seem somewhat distant because of this attitude of authority. They are equally regimented in romance. They leave nothing to chance and are forever trying to "manage" those they love.

Children and Family
July 4 people have strong ties to family members, particularly siblings. As parents, they draw upon their background and pass on the values that were bequeathed to them.

Health
These robust, vigorous individuals are often health fanatics. They consider exercise a necessity, not just a pastime. They are perennial dieters yet usually settle upon a more realistic eating plan at some time in their experience.

Career and Finances
Because of their charisma, July 4 natives often gravitate to professions where they are "on display" such as performing arts, modeling, and media. Their financial stability is questionable; these people often make a great deal of money yet are unable to hold onto it.

Dreams and Goals
July 4 individuals take pleasure from starting each new day and realizing its potential. They need to find personal happiness in order to make their lives worthwhile.

This is me, to a T. I love this stuff!

I am SP, standalone!

Hello world! This is my 4th attempt of sharing and documenting my way toward self-discovery.

My Xanga has been abandoned and discontinued for now (check it out to see the OLD me www.xanga.com/wasabixgirl) AND my 2 old private bloggers have been deleted. What is the cause for this fresh start? For the first time in 10 years, I am no longer "SP and (insert here)". I am SP, standalone. It's my time to delve into self-definition and development. So let the fun begin!!!

Here, I will divulge my thoughts, rants, favorite music lyrics, thoughts on the dating scene, my take on the interesting creatures we know as men, inspirational quotes, and whatever else pops into my head.